Thursday, July 19, 2007

Seen, but Unseen.. Part 2

This is the second part of the ‘Seen, but Unseem’ blog.. Last time we talked about weakness.. This time we talk about something else.. Something that really important for us.. The theme of this post is FRIENDSHIP.. Again, we will talk about true friend//

Like I’ve said before.. True friend is totally different with friend, the ordinary one.. With friends, you’ll have mutual interactions which will make you give something each other.. Importance is playing a great role there.. But, true friend doesn’t need mutual interactions... True friend doesn’t need importance to make his/her friend important..

We have problem to identify true friend.. We often identify true friends by looking at what they give to us.. The more they give us.. The more we thought he/she as a true friend.. That’s a false thinking.. True friend can’t be identified by what they give, but how they give..

Seen, but Unseen..

We smetimes falsely identified about true friend.. We falsely thought ordinary friend as ture friend, which worth of dying for.. We don’t know that true friend is in front of us, stand together with us, support us the best he/she can to help us stand.. We only saw those who give us more.. Not gove us the best he/she can..

Arrogance.. Again, it plays a great role to make us blind about true friend. We want to have great friends.. This might be our next basic dreams.. Friends that we can be proud of.. This makes us close our eyes with those who can only give us few.. We don’t want to know how best he/she give us.. We only care about the real action.. This is again a false thinking..Cuz, sometimes our true is not a great and perfect person.. But, at least he/she give the best he/she can with all of his/her capabilities.. That’s the true essence of true friends..

Your true friend is right there.. He/she lives with you with all the dreams and goals you have.. He/she may not give you much.. But, at least he/she gives you the best.. That’s much more important.. Only true friend will stay with you no matter what happen.. He/she will not easily betray you..

You really need true friend, cuz when everybody against you.. Only true friend will help you out of your trouble.. Realize it.. Your true friend is in front of you.. You have realize it and act the same as he/she does.. Cuz, true friend is the most valuable treasure in our life.. Take care of it..

Nothing personal, No Hard Feelings, No Offense,
Royben..

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

yea, you've already known why i do not give any comment for this issue.

i appriciate your opinion. but even we live in the same world, but we both have different position and also point of view.

i always like the choleric-sanguinis, sometimes made me feel envy..